With back to
school fever, parents, grandparents and children are shifting into new gear. Summer
holidays were fun but now it’s time to settle back into the routine. Our family
is a gift from God and we should not take it for granted.
One reason the
family has been so much under attack is because it represents God the most. For
decades now the family values have been reduced to shreds. But a family belongs
to God and He will not allow it to fizzle out. Fads come and go but our families are here to stay. Therefore, we might
as well learn to get along with each other. We shouldn’t just endure our
family but enjoy them.
Everything God
does have an order. The solar system circles in a certain motion. The waves of
the sea have rhythms and even the law of nature operates in a certain order. If a family has to be healthy it must also have
God’s order at home. Today let’s discuss a few principles from God’s Word
about family matters.
First, the
husbands! It is God’s plan for the husband to be the head of the family. Let me
assure you, men did not come up with this idea. God did! Many men have abdicated
their role as the leader of the family and that’s why we have such havoc in our
society. Leadership is not to be confused
with dictatorship. Leadership is making sure the right person is making the
right decision. Involve your wife in important decision making process.
It’s smart because if the plan fails you have someone else to share the blame
with! Men it is not enough to be lions in your career but now it is time for
you to lead your family in spiritual things. Don’t just provide for our family
financially but provide for their emotional, mental and social needs also. You’ve
got to make her feel secured of your
love and provision in every area. Your
wife and children need your praise, understanding and validation. Give up
control and allow your wife freedom. More is caught than taught. Children become what they hear. Lavish
them with affirmation. Catch them doing something
right and brag about it. Teach your children responsibilities, Godly values
and establish healthy boundaries. Discipline is still in God’s Book. Unconditional love is like glue that binds
your family together. If we want our women to follow us as the church needs
to follow Christ then we must also lay down our lives in service to our family
God gave us. Remember, no man was awarded
for what he received but what he gave.
Ladies, you’re
beautiful so your job is to make everything beautiful. God has given you incredible gift to love and nurture your family.
You look most beautiful when you operate as the “helper.” A woman’s value is the same as of the husband but our roles
are different. Don’t assume the roles of your husband, it makes him feel
inadequate. The most important thing your
husband need from you is respect and honor. The more you brag about him in
private and in public the better he will perform. Remember, men are little boys
trapped in large bodies. Don’t focus on
the 20% your husband may not be best at rather focus on the 80% he’s good at.
Let God change him. He’s got a heavy Hand! When you create an atmosphere that
is filled with fun, peace and laughter, everybody will want to hang around the
house. Just the opposite is also true when a home is filled with strife and
stress. Don’t sweat the small stuff. You don’t always have to agree on
everything. When you cannot agree on an
issue with your husband, yield and let him make the final decision. Be
comfortable but look your best at home as you do in public. Your tenderness mixed with gracefulness and
prayers are mighty weapons that will melt every heart. You are the most valuable treasure in the family!
The scripture
says, “Children, obey your parents in the
Lord.” Turn down the volume and turn up the respect. There will be authorities you’ll have to submit to all your life; start
practicing at home. You’ll live long and it will go well with you. Your parents are the only free life lessons
you’ll have. Take their advice; it will save you a lot of heartaches.
Learn, grow, belong - your family is the only thing God chose for you. Accept
and admire your family. Dedicate yourself
to the things of God and high ambitions and you’ll see success in every step of
your life. Don’t like what I have to say about today? Talk to God! These
are His ideas.
God’s thoughts on family: (Ephesians
5:22 – 6:4, Colossians 3:18-21, I Peter 3:1-12).
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