At
the end of the day, regardless of our success in carrier or business, our
family is all we will have left. They are the highest contributors to our
success but sometimes least appreciated people in our world. Let’s not take our
family for granted.
One
of the best ways we can show our appreciation to our family members is through
our praise. Remember, people do more of what you brag about and less of what
you nag about. Lavish your praise for your family. Thank, appreciate and
encourage them both in private and in public – daily, several times a day.
Another
way you can add value to your family is to offer your act of services in the
home front. Men, it’s not enough to be the breadwinner of our family. We’re
also to provide security, emotional support and practical help around the
house. Ladies, your man needs your admiration and appreciation. Tell him how
proud and confident you are of his abilities and sacrifices. If you want A+
kids like mine, catch them doing something good. Praise them and correct them.
Never allow rebellion to take root. You’re the boss; you make the adult
decisions. Children need boundaries. They will bring you immense joy! You’re to
enjoy them not endure them.
Last
but not the least, overlook a few faults. Listen, don’t sabotage 80% good in
your relationship in exchange for 20%. None of us are perfect. Instead of harping
on their faults, just pick up the dirty sock or help your wife find that car
key that’s always missing. You can turn your home into a battlefield or you can
choose to cover for your loved ones and make a beautiful harmony of your lives.
Friend,
nobody gets to choose their family. No matter what you think, they are a gift
from God. Like, enjoy and celebrate your family. When the world sees us loving
our family, they will glorify God and want to be part of His family.
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