Most people I know
love to spend time with their family. I do know a few who do not like each
other. A family is God’s idea. Whenever God designs something special, the
enemy will try to distort it. We must honor and protect our family.
Of all the
relationships we have, our family is what God chose for us. We may not like some of our family members
but when we talk down on them we discredit their Maker. When we’re in
harmony as a family, God commands His blessing there.
With Christmas
approaching, most of us will have plenty of interaction with our family members.
If we’re not careful, we can easily miss the opportunity to make some great
memories. Today, let’s talk about a few practical things we can do and avoid to
make great memories with our families.
1. Make a decision to enjoy your
family. We usually find
what we’re looking for. When we have a made up mind, we can easily enjoy the
company of others. People love to talk
about themselves. Don’t let that be you. Take genuine interest in others. Ask about their family, work,
recreation, vacation and such. Avoid controversy. Don’t allow your past
experiences to clout your mind. Don’t just endure; enjoy your family.
2. Don’t be selfish. Your values and likes are important.
However, when our attitude is my way or
the highway, we’re being off balance. Let other people decide what and when
to eat, what games to play and what show to watch. The more we engage other
people in the decision making process, the more comfortable everybody will
feel. Ask, “What do you think?” And
then do what they’re saying.
3. Don’t have fun at the expense of
others. Family times are
a breeding ground for sarcasms. It’s a lot of fun. I used to be a master at it.
Unfortunately, it is a sinister in straining relationships. When we laugh to belittle
others, we’re hurting people to the core. Follow the rule of respect and honor.
What we send out will come back to us.
4. Accept people the way they are. When we allow people to be who they
are, we’re making them feel at home. Some people like to talk others don’t.
Some want to jump in and help others want to lounge. Some like to socialize
others want to take a nap at every opportunity they get. Don’t think, “What’s wrong with them?” Don’t judge. Allow
people to be who they are. Live and let live!
5. Go easy with the rules. If you have small children, give them
a break. Certainly, we don’t want them to act without manners but family get together
is not an ideal place to train your child. Give them instruction beforehand.
Teach them after. If you have to correct them, take them to a private place and
do it as quietly as possible.
6. Get out of the house. Walking, playing and fresh air do
wonders to our body. Encourage everyone to some sorts of movement. This is especially
important if you’re planning to eat a big meal together.
7. Keep God in the conversation. Deposit something spiritual in each
other. We all have much to thank God for. None of us got to where we are or
have what we have without His blessings. We can whine about a renegade society
or include Him in our time with our family. When we make room for God in our
conversation we’re passing on a Godly heritage.
Enjoy your family.
Also remember the lonely, elderly and
broken hearted. Include them if you can. What you do for others, God will
make happen for you. Spend time with your family. They’re a gift from God!
“Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and
especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an
unbeliever” (I Timothy 5:8 NIV).
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