The
quality of our lives depends on the quality of relationships we build. The
better relationship we have with people the more excellent life we will enjoy
on earth. So what can we do to build better relationships?
1.
Treat everyone with respect. Best relationships are based on mutual trust and
respect. When we treat the other person whom God created equally with respect, we take the
first step toward building a strong relationship. When we respect people, we
don’t let things fly off the handle. We pause, think and consider the outcome before
we act.
2. Invest
in others. Jesus said, 'It is
more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35). Good relationships are
based on sowing and reaping. What we invest in a relationship is what we get
out of it. Everyone wants to be on the receiving end of the Golden Rule but our
mindset should be the opposite. Don’t worry about getting back. Just stay
focused on giving and you will invariably receive.
3. Give people some room to grow.
None of us are perfect. No matter how close a relationship is, there will be
opportunity for misunderstanding, hurt and disappointment. Guard against such
things to happen. But inevitably when things do get sour, overlook the wrong,
forgive and stay committed to the relationship.
The
grass may look greener on the other side but remember that you still need to
water it. Invest in the relationships God has given you and you will live a
more fulfilled life.
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